"I'm 43, a father of three. Is there any point in me starting?" The question I get every week, and the answer that surprises everyone: in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, starting after 35 comes with the biggest advantages of all.

Which is better, MMA or Jiu Jitsu? The answer starts on a night in Denver in 1993, breaks five myths you need to unlearn, and ends with one question: what is your real goal?